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dads. They seemed like an afterthought. Although
Mother’s Day was originally thought to have
been first proclaimed in 1870 by American social
activist Julia Ward Howe as a call to unite women
against the American Civil War, dads didn’t
get their own special day until almost 40
years
later. In 1909, Sonora Smart Dodd of Spokane, Washington,
was listening to a Mother’s Day sermon in church
when she thought that fathers deserved their own day
of recognition. Her father, a Civil War veteran, raised
Sonora and her five siblings after their mother died
in childbirth. She petitioned to have the third Sunday
of June (the month in which her father was born) declared
Father’s Day and asked people to wear a rose
on that day to honor their dads.
The
first Father’s Day was celebrated on June 19,
1910. It was not until 1966, under U.S. President
Lyndon B. Johnson, that it was proclaimed a national
holiday and the observance of this on the third Sunday
in June was made a law in 1972. (In contrast, the
U.S. observed Mother’s Day nationally for the
first time in 1914.)
However,
this modern tribute has been disputed. It’s
been said that a Babylonian youth named Elmesu carved
the first known Father’s Day card in clay nearly
4,000 years ago. His special message wished his father
good health and a long life.
Father's
Day Observances
Countries
that celebrate Father’s Day on the third Sunday
of June, Argentina, Canada, Chile, Colombia, Cuba,
France, Hong Kong S.A.R., India, Pakistan, Ireland,
Japan, Macao S.A.R., Malaysia, Malta, Mexico, the
Netherlands, Peru, Singapore, Slovakia, South Africa,
Turkey, the United Kingdom, the United States, and
Venezuela.
The
rose has become the symbol of Father’s Day.
Some wear a red rose to indicate that one’s
father is living or a white rose if he is dead.
Some
favorite gifts on Father’s Day are neckties,
socks, pipes and cigars, and shirts.
Last
year, Americans sent nearly 95 million greeting cards
during Father’s Day, making the occasion the
fourth most popular card-sending occasion.
They
spent $8.2 billion in Father’s Day gifts in
2005, compared to the $11.2 billion spent for Mother’s
Day. |
Filipino:
tatay, itay, tay, ama
French: papa
Romani: dad
German: banketi, Papi
Hebrew: av, aba(h)
Yiddish: tatti, or tay
Urdu: Abbu, Abbu-ji, Abbu-jan
Bangla: Baba, Abba
Kannada: Appa
Hindi: Papa, Pita-ji, Baap
Polish: tata
Hungarian: apa, or apu
Dutch: papa
Italian: papa, babbo
Arabic: babba, yebba, abbi (classical)
Russian: papa
Chinese: bà, bàba (informal)
Kiswahili: Baba
Persian: pedar, pitar, Baabaa
Japanese: otsan, papa, chichi
Spanish: papá
Turkish: baba
Malay/Indonesian: Abah, Ayah
Swedish: Pappa
Dad
Through the 'Ages"
At
4: My daddy can do anything.
At 5: My daddy knows a whole lot.
At 6: My dad is smarter than your
dad.
At 8: My dad doesn’t know exactly
everything.
At 10: In the olden days, when my
dad grew up, things were sure different.
At 12: Oh, well, naturally, Dad doesn’t
know anything about that . He is too old to remember
his childhood.
At 14: Don’t pay any attention
to my dad. He is so old-fashioned.
At 21: Him? My Lord, he’s hopelessly
out of date.
At 25: Dad knows about it, but then
he should, because he has been around so long.
At 30: Maybe we should ask Dad what
he thinks. After all, he’s had a lot of experience.
At 35: I’m not doing a single
thing until I talk to Dad.
At 40: I wonder how Dad would have
handled it. He was so wise.
At 50: I’d give anything if
Dad were here now so I could talk this over with him.
Too bad I didn’t appreciate how smart he was.
I could have learned a lot from him. |