WHAT
keeps Pinoys closer to home? Why the Pinoy channels
, of course. If kababayans abroad glue themselves
to Willie Revillame’s Wowowee, they should be
just as enamored of GMA Pinoy TV’s Bubble Gang,
the longest-running comedy and gag show in the Philippines.
Credit part of the show’s longevity to creative
director and castmate Michael V. He not only dreams
up his parodies, he is equally convincing bringing
them to zany life. Take his take on current commercials,
melodramas, hit songs, showbiz issues and yes, Gloria
Macapagal-Arroyo. As a bonus to fans, Michael V also
has a hilarious new his audio-video CD entitled Michael
V: Bubble Gang Anthology.
Michael V, or Bitoy as he’s also called (his
real name’s Beethoven!), is also the beloved
daddy of three kids. In a business known for overworking
stars who neglect their kids as a result, Michael
V has an unusual fathering style.
Hands-on
dad
Bitoy has three kids: the eldest, Milo, is 13 years
old; Yanni, the only girl, will be 9 this September;
and Migo, the bunso, is 4. He and his wife are open
to have another child if they’ll be so blessed.
In a scale of 1 to 10, Bitoy rates his feelings on
being a father as “20,” adding “masarap
maging tatay.” He said the family recent trip
to the U.S. for a vacation only confirmed what he
already felt.
In the run-up to this vacation, he gave his kids fair
warning and a reason to be overjoyed.. “Pasensya
na kayo, magbabakasyon tayo e. Sunud-sunod muna trabaho
ko. Kasi kailangang mag-ipon ng mga episodes ng advance.
Pagdating natin sa States, 100% sa inyo na ako.”
One hundred percent meant that whenever they’d
go out, he took care of the kids and let his wife
do as she pleased. While this can be overwhelming
to a parent who isn’t sanay, Bitoy said the
arrangement suited him perfectly since he also likes
to hang out in the places his kids preferred to go
– toy stores, bookstores, the arcade.
Noisy,
artistic and a mini-me
He described his eldest as quiet but always smiling,
a person with deep thoughts. His second as someone
“very artistic.” And the bunso as the
noisy one, “the small Bitoy.”
He and wife don’t ask their kids to be like
Dad. They encourage them to be what they want to be.
“Strive hard kung ano ang gusto nilang maging,”
Bitoy explains. Milo wants to be a doctor, “I
encourage him, give him books, medicine-related video
games.”
Yanni loves music, “so ayun, piano siya, guitar,”
he says.” Gusto raw niya sa gymnastics, so sige
lang.”
His smallest? “Ewan, gusto yata maging presidente
ng Pilipinas. Lahat kami pinupulitiko,” Bitoy
replies with a wide grin.
He knows his kids well because evidently, giving his
kids a huge percentage of his time is a crucial Daddy
Bitoy to-do.
Bitbit
pati bata
In fact, starting from when Milo, his eldest, was
just a year old, Bitoy would always take his children
with him whenever his job brought him out of town
or even abroad. “I never got used to the idea
of leaving for a long time without bringing my kids
along,” he said. “Since nagagawan naman
ng paraan na maisama sila, isinasama ko na. Kung hindi
magagawaan ng paraan hindi ko naman ipipilit. As long
as kaya, na palagi namang nangyayari. Ginagawa ko,
mas secured ako.”
Because of this constant bonding with the kids, Bitoy
never found it a huge problem to act, sing, dance
and dress like a gay in his shows and music videos.
With his habit of bringing the kids along, he’s
able to show them that his work requires him to play-act,
as other actors do, too.
In fact, his eldest son, Milo, was once asked by a
barber, “Who’s your daddy?” The
boy replied: “Beethoven.” The barber said,
“Oh, isn’t he Michael V?” Milo explained:
“Oh, that’s his work.” And that,
said Bitoy, was correct.
BITOY’S
DADDY TIPS
•Quantity time, not the so-called quality time,
is needed. The more hours you spend with the kids,
the better. Basta nandyan ka, lalaking matino ang
anak mo. Nadi-develop ang quality time kung marami
kang oras sa kanila. Quantity is equivalent to quality.
•Listen to your children, always maintain a
common ground. When they talk to you, go to their
eye-level. Umupo o dumapa ka, hindi maganda yung nakatingala
sila sa iyo habang nag-uusap kayo.
•I’m not really following any “parenting
school of thought.” Basta balikan mo kabataan
mo, isipin mo lahat ng gusto mo na sana’y ginawa
sa iyo ng magulang mo, iyon ang gawin mo para sa mga
anak mo. Pareho rin ng mga ginawa ng tatay mo na gusto
ninyo, gawin mo sa mga anak mo.
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