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The Trouble with Alex
 
CAUGHT last Saturday’s Imbestigador. I read somewhere that an entrapment episode would be aired that it would involve a gay person named Alex. This Alex said he was a “producer” conducting an audition for an “international film.” The audition process was supposedly confidential and would occur inside Alex’s room. There would be no one else around. The “audition” would require the guy auditioning to strip, dance provocatively and masturbate as the camera rolls.

The person who reported this “audition” to Imbestigador, GMA’s reality program highlighted by raids and exposes, is a snake man named Harold Montano. One of Harold’s friends received an SMS from the purported producer. The friend was eager to work abroad so he went to the audition and did all the deeds expected of him The video that was screened on TV showed the a half naked Alex and the anonymous “auditonee” doing what was needed.

Knowing Imbestigador’s penchant for the sensational, including portraying gay men as either perverts or demented, the raiding team swooped down on Alex and Mr. Anonymous. Take note that this occurred in Alex’s own home. Armed with their warrant of arrest, the police swarmed the gay guy’s home, told him blatantly the sin he was committing, went to his room and gathered damning evidence. They then brought Alex to the National Bureau of Investigation where he was brought face-to-face with the tipster, Harold Montano, and Mr. Anonymous. Alex was beside himself. He cried and cried and cried and cried as the tempest raged.

Though I do not agree with Alex’s plan to lure the men so they could play with themselves in front of the camera, I felt there was something wrong with the way the rading team “captured” Alex. When the NBI presented Alex the warrant, shouldn’t they have informed him of his rights? Did the NBI or Imbestigador give Alex the opportunity to have a lawyer by his side while he was being questioned and as he went through the whole process of “pag-piano” for fingerprints and the “photo op”?

Let me reiterate that I am not in agreement with Alex’s ploy of fooling men. What he did is wrong in my book. However, the manner in which Imbestigador handled the whole situation felt like bullying to me. It implied that gay men are not to be trusted and that gay men will do anything for a quick fix. The episode ran for more than 20 minutes and felt like a slap on every gay guy’s face.

Talagang we will never make it. Mababa na naman ang tingin sa mga bading pagkatapos ng karnabal na nagpapanggap na taga-ligtas ng mga naapi! And I cannot help but wonder how Montano the snitch and Mr. Anonymous would face their other gay friends and benefactors after the stunt they pulled.

Is there anything that pro-gay groups or so-called “gay empowerment groups” like Ladlad will do about this situation? It might take time, especially since their party list group has been disqualified and their senatorial candidate, Prof. Danton Remoto, disqualified by the
Comelec for being a “nuisance candidate.”

I feel for the plight of Alex. There are so many gay guys just like him who come up with desperate measures just to feel that he “belongs” or is “with” someone even for a brief moment, keber ba sa consequences.

This Alex episode is a blatant reminder of why the “leaders” of the “progressive gay groups” are failing in their quest for political representation. Their causes seem rarefied. They have become so full of themselves, believing that what they want is the best for everyone. They have failed in the fundamental task of touching lives, communicating, and making gays like us realize that there is more to gay life than having a lover, and that kahit nag-iisa, you can choose to be happy.

How many more Alexes must be captured and presented like an animal on national TV? How many more exposes can a divided pink community take for us to really come together? Why is this happening? What are we going to about this?
 
 
Commentary by Alwin M. Ignacio
 
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